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So, like, my girlfriend broke up with me like 6 months ago. And I actually cannot get her off my mind. I mean, I think I actually still really like her which is all the worse because she doesn't want anything to do with me. We used to be friends before we went out and I really liked her for a fair few months before anything was said. So its like I went from having this fairly good friendship to a relationship to nothing. And, well, it still hurts.
I mean, I know why she broke up with me and everything, and her points are pretty fair (I was too clingy i suppose is the best way to describe it). But I only acted the way I did because, in a typically manly and ironic thing to do, I didn't want to lose what I had waited so long to get. I really cared about her, infact I still do. And given the choice I would go back and change what I did. But thats not going to happen, so I have to deal with it.
Now, your first thought might be 'wow, this guys pathetic'. Well, I don't have a particularly high opinion of myself either. But I was just wondering if anyone had any advice for what I can do?
And trust me, I have heard everything about it taking time, but 6 months and counting is far too long to wait in my opinion.
I mean, I really want to tell her how I still feel, but the thing is I havent spoken to her in literally 2 months and a random message from me detailing how I feel won't go down well I fear.
Because the thing at the bottom is telling me to, i'm 17/m and she is 17/f (duh)
Any help would be appreciated
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the same thing happend to me.. Im a girl and I was too clingy to. and before we started dating we promised we wouldn't let it ruin our friendship but it did. I still kinda talk to him but it seems like he doens't want anything to do with me. and it sucks becaues I really loved him. and I still do even after everything.. I think you should just try to let it to. things don't last forever. I had a really hard time forgetting about it... but things have gotten better. I still think about him often... but sometimes you just have accept it. and if you really can't take it. maybe ask her if you guys can talk but don't seem to eager... ask for just friendship if anything. I know its hard but sometimes you have to let go.
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Rating: 5
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Thanks :) As horrible as it sounds, knowing someone else has gone through it and come out the other side is a great help :)
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