about

i'm kathleen.
i'm thirteen years old.
i've been through alot.
i'm absolutely nothing special, and you'll find i'm nothing that will amaze you.
i have trust issues.
i hate many things, such as animal abuse, and labels.
i'm a vegitarian, and i don't drink milk.
i sometimes talk alot, sometimes i'm really quiet.
get to know me: kathleenxsaidd- AIM.

advice

ok well this is kind of been upsetting me for a while. Everytime i try to ask a question about my lovelife on here, everyone gives me the same answer to a question i was never asking. I'll be asking about something like becoming more closer to my boyfriend or how to show him my emotions without hiding them and ill say i love him alot or something and thats why i want to be more open towards him and in every advice im given, people always tell me im not inlove. In responses im always getting "He's just a crush so don't worry" or "Your to young to be inlove". I don't see how someone can be to young to be inlove, its like saying a child doesn't love his mum because he's to young to understand what it is. Ok i started to think "what exactly IS love?" and i googled it and got this answer "a strong positive emotion of regard and affection". So according to the dictionary, i AM in fact inlove. Its just these people who think that age does make a difference. I can understand that most people think teenagers are just hormone driven and that because while we are going through puberty and we start to feel more for the opposite sex or the same sex in some cases that we are just overwhelmed by these emotions and mis-judge it as love. It's not like i write all over my school books "I LOVE [NAME]" or in my msn name or anything like that, i just constantly have this inner warmth when i think about him or hear his voice or when hes cuddling me. I feel like even though im growing up people still treat me as a child for believing that im inlove. Theres only a select few of people i know who understand how i feel and i just need to know how people can think that someone who hasn't exactly had a lifetime of experience can be wrong about being inlove? Am i thinking stupidly? Should i just not even try a relationship until im over 20? Im so confused about everything and people are making me feel like im not inlove and im starting to grow distant to my boyfriend because of it. Please help.

Hey.
Well, what people tell you here on advicenators isn't fact. It's just their oppinion on a subject.

Here's the deal : some people meet the person that they want to, and will spend the rest of their life with as young as when they're three.

It starts with you knowing this person for a long time, getting comfortable around them, realizing you like them, and the bond grows from there.

I agree, I'm thirteen and people have told me all the time I'm not in love. The thing is, I know how I feel, and noone else does. It's the same with you. By what you tell us, you really like, even love, this kid. However, since we aren't you, we can't feel exactly how much. If you think you love someone, chances are you really do. Don't listen to whatever anyone else tells you, becuase the bottom line is, you're the only one that knows for sure.

I hope this helped.

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(Rating: 5) Thankyou! It's nice someone can relate. I feel better now =D
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