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DancinCutie08
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So I have an aunt, an uncle, and three cousins that moved out of state. It broke my heart when I first heard they were leaving, and I only get to see them once a year. I was so close to all of them, especially one cousin in particular. Let's call him A.
A and I have been like best friends ever since we met. We were close about everything, and had the kind of relationship where you could talk about everything together because we weren't afraid to. We trusted each other & have only fought ONCE! We have an incredible bond like no one else... nobody can ever break that bond.
Whenever we get together, it's never awkward between us. The Tom-Boy just comes right out in me and I love that. He brings out something in me, a side that no one else can bring out.
It's probably been about 2 or 3 years since they've moved and I've grown used to it. He's 12 and I'm 13. We're both at the age where we understand what's going on. We can only see each other once a year and it breaks my heart.
On a higher note, we've been communicating through e-mail which is great. It's so fantastic to still be talking to him even if it's not in person. It lets me know he's always there to talk to me even though he's 2 million miles away. :)
So my question is, how can I tell him I miss him without sounding all sappy and mushy?
We've never talked like that before.
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Hi
I went through your question rather I say emotions which you hold for the next. You know memories sometime behave in a crazy way, they leave you alone when you are in a crowd and when you are alone they stand like a crowd. Your problem is not that you are not able to express but you don't know what to express.
When we understand a fellow very deeply it creates a bond of attachment and this attachment is inarticulated.In absence of that concern, we feel restless and miss very much which is a natural state of mind. There is no degree of defining how much an individual can miss another.
Don't let your feeling to spread and your mind in dilemma. If you want to express your emotions then first give name to it because without knowing your goal, how can you move towards it?
Once it all happens and you are fully convinced with your self then contact him and precisely in your own terms express your self
Thanks and regards
mumbo_molu@yahoo.com
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well i didnt really understand what you wrote all the way through, and im not sure if you really answered my question, but thank you!
take care and God bless!
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