Member Since: June 4, 2007
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Last Update: July 2, 2007
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How can you tell if a guy is after sex or love? I feel like I can't be objective so I'm just gonna tell you some stuff and you'll tell me what you think.. what is he after? He seems to be very interested in me even though we've NEVER kissed or held hands or had any physical contact (so that speaks for LOVE right?) ALTHOUGH I have given him strong signs that if he were to become mine, we'd do A LOT of physical stuff.. so I have planted expectations in his head. When he flirts it's usually like "i can't wait to be alone with you" "i cant wait to see you..theres all these things i want to say to you..and do to you" or "make sure you wear tasty lipgloss the next time you come over" but sometimes he also says "i miss you so much" or "Love you like a fat kids love cake" His friends all lie to him and tell him I'm a slut.. so he probably thinks I'm easy (even though I've only had one kiss and nothing else my whole life!) but he's always treated me with respect. When he wants to give me a compliment it has never been about anything physical, it's always like "you're so sweet" or "you have this quality i've never seen in any other chick" or sometimes compliments my eyes, so i dont know, i get mixed signals, and I would really want to know what he's after, cause I don't put out..
oh and one more question! lets say I'm at his house..and we're making out (which im cool with) but then he starts undressing me.. is there any way to pause the physical without saying "lets take it slow" or "I dont want to".. like is there a way to not go further withotu ruining the mood or making it awkward?! (link)
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you can tell if i guy just wants sex if hes always asking for it...and its hard to tell the question you asked because i can tell if people are lying or not by the way they talk to me.. like if there looking at you in the eyes or not..and i think the best thing to do is ask him if he is interested in you or not and tell him you like him and stuff.. otherwise both of you will give each other mixed signals because both of you didnt say if you like each other.. and if he starts undressing you just pull away and say no.. theres nothing wrong with saying no, you need to be strong and stick up for yourself and dont ever be scared because you'll end up getting fucked over many times in your life..
hope this helpped
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he just wanted sex :( oh well.. good advice, thx!
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