Hi there.. My name is Kirsten.. I'm 21, I live in a small country town in South Australia, Australia. I love life, I love giving advice to anyone who needs it. I have a boyfriend of 5 years and were very much in lurrve ;) Feel free to ask me anything guys and gals.. thats what i'm here for. If I don't know the answer to your questions i'll try my best to give you what I know.. Have fun, live life to the fullest and ask away... ;) xoxo
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im almost 15 and i have been with my boyfriend for about 8 months now. One of his good friends who is a girl needs him for what shes going through at home right now. He admits that he has neglected me for his attetion has been focused on her. (BTW she likes him) I have told him that she has beginning to get between us, but he fails to see it and says im the only one who sees it. So what is really between us then? Am I right? Or is there something else? (link)
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Now this is a hard one..
I understand how hard it is for you to see another girl confiding to your boyfriend. It's happened to me before but my boyfriend (who I am still with) was just only trying to help.. just like we all help on here.
You need to tell your boyfriend that you feel uncomfortable about this situation. As you said you two have been together for 8 months, i'm almost certain he wont leave you.
He probably is just trying to help her. Let him know that you don't mind him trying to help its a good thing but there is a fine line between helping and caring too much.
Perhaps you should talk to the girl as well.. let her know that if she needs a girl to talk to that you are there to help too. Perhaps suggest to her that if things are too bad she should see a professional psychiatrist or something.
Good luck :)
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