Hey I may be young but have a lot of life experience. I am not judgmental, but will tell you my opinion. For the past few months I have been using the account youareneveralone because this one had not been working...hopefully the problem is solved. Anyway I love to help people so please ask me whatever you need.
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I recently got pregnant from having sex with some guy I met at a bar one night. I know. It was wrong of me, and I feel terrible. I am debating whether or not I should get an abortion. I know that this guy won't ever even consider being a father, and I don't know if I can handle a baby on my own. I've heard so many stories of single mothers going crazy. I don't know what to do! I'm so torn up inside!
Does anyone have any advice they are willing to give to me to help me make the right decision.
Thanks so much to you all. (link)
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Adoption i personally feel is best. If you do have an abortion, i know many people how have never been able to get over the guilt of killing thier baby, even 20, 30 years after. And that is not something you want to carry around for the rest of your life. Also it could serously damage you phyiscally and emotionaly. You don't seem to be ready to raise a child so putting him/her up for adoption is a loving thing to do. Not only are you giving your baby life, but the chance at a life with a family more capable to support him/her then you might be able to give. I'm not going to tell you how to run your life but for the babys sake and yours I would put the baby up for adoption. Good luck
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Thank you so much, and you're not telling me how to run my life- you're giving honest advice, and I really appreciate it.
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