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Q: i am not sure this category fits, but its the best i could choose..sorry

okay..so im a 15/f...almost 16 in october..

i have always lacked self-confidence, and i think i am really ugly and fat..but everyone always tells me im hott, but i honestly dont get it. when i look in the mirror i hate what i see..
i dont know if me being REALLY fat last year has anything to do with it. i lost over 40 pounds, but i still feel fat, even though i am in the healthy weight range, and i also have double d's, if that has any effect.

so i was wondering what i could do to make myself feel better? should i lose more weight? or what? any advice helps, and please be honest! thanks!

here is my myspace, if you wanted to see a picture of me..
myspace.com/THISisWHYimHOTTdoubleD

Your pretty to me.
You might still be struggling with your weight issues from back then.
You should focus on not wanting to be like that nomore not what you look likw now.
Should you lose more weight? Thats a hard question to answer considering your whole body cant be seen on your profile is private.

Rating: 5

thanks alot!this really helps!=)

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