about

Hey there! I'm Carey. I'd love to hear from you so don't hesitate to ask me anything! I'll reply to you the best way I can. Feel free to even send me an email!

xo

advice

ok so me and this girl were bffs last year we had this huge fight last summer about this guy who we were both in love with!
we hated each other for a long time but recently started hanging out again and became friends just like we were before! well i started hangin out with the guy we had fought over before and started to like him ALOT again. suddenly she likes him again too. i dont know what to do im trying to just not like him anymore cus i dont want to lose her as a friend but i cant let him go!
we are starting to fight over him alot now and i need help i cant lose my bff again but i cant let go of the guy!

It sounds like a situation where you need to decide what you really want to keep and what you can let go.

"Guys come and go, but friends are forever"

If you really can't let go of him then just try not to talk about him infront of her, or if she brings him up then just let her talk and stay out of it cause thats how fights start.

Eventually those feelings will fade if nothing happenes between you and him.

Good luck. Its a tough situation

[view]

(Rating: 5) thanks
<<< Previous Advice Column
Next Advice Column >>>
humorist-workshop
eXTReMe Tracker