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I'm Sammie, i'm 17. Feel free to ask me anything, dont be shy. ...BUT if you ask stupid questions, then you'll get stupid answers. loL! i guess that's the fun part. I like hanging out with friends, dancing in my underwear(ha ha), and many other things...

Ok kids...you kno what to do if you have any questions.

xoxo Sammie

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Hey. Well, I'm 13/female. I always fight with my mom. Sometimes, we just get in little fights, but sometimes huge ones.

She always seems to be in a stressed out, angry,bad mood, and she is always snapping at me and making a big deal out of nothing.

It never fails, that every single night we argue. And to me, it always seems like it's her.
It IS her. I wouldn't have an issue if she would just leave me alone, and let me actually have a life.

I'M 13 YEARS OLD, AND SHE STILL FIGHTS WITH ME ABOUT GOING PLACES WITHOUT ADULTS.
She doesn't let me go TO THE CENTER OF TOWN WITH MY FRIENDS, becuase i'm 'too young'. We don't live in a bad area. It's a quiet place, and nothing ever happens here. I've never even gotten into trouble where she can't trust me anymore.

I want to live with my dad, and go to school in his town. He let's me have a life, without doubting me for a second.
I'm not a bad kid, I've never done anything wrong. Well, atleast not like majorly wrong like drugs or fighting or anything. I've told my mom i wanna live with my dad. She doesn't listen, and neither does he.

What can I do?! I can't even deal with this anymore.

I'm home alone for the ENTIRE SUMMER, and she won't let ANYONE come over for even like an hour while she's not here.

IM NOT A BAD KID, SHE HAS NO REASON FOR THIS DISTRUST.
She thinks just becuase I dress semi -"emo" in her oppinion, that i'm some horrible child that can't be trusted. This is SO GAY, what do i do!?

i JUST RECENTLY went through this SAME THING. i'm 17 yrs old and my mom still picks fights with me. She's been under alot of stress...so that caused her to snap at everyone..mostly me. So i thought to myself, "be around the house, stay out of her way, and dont talk to her unless she talks to me first." it basically seems like the silent treatment...but really, your giving her a dose of her own medicine...but in a different manner. and nice (NOT MEAN) clean, safe, manner. so then she has time to think about how she's been treating you and/or anyone else.. You just have to be really patient with her, and i know that you have been, you just need to stay patient a little while longer. things will fall into place. ^_^ if you have anymore questions about this..dont be afraid to ask. :)

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