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This may sound SOO televisioness but it's my life and its full of drama Im in florida right now with my family and my grandparents. I came to Florida to get away from all the drama where im from. Well on the way there I have Eric calling me saying he wants me to come back so i was like you have someone. You dont need me. He said he broke up with my best friend, D. Well i hung up on him and called her and she was crying saying its not far how i have 2 boys Josh and Eric that both like me and not one likes her. I said i had no idea he was dumping her and that i never liked Eric and never will. She accepted my apoligy and we came up with an idea to get him back. I apoligied for hanging up on him and he told me he was already in Florida! He told me his grandparents are friends with mine and that he's staying in there cabin thats across the street from mine gradparents. Well when I got there me and him are sharing a room, and im on a lap top right now. Our plan is that im saposed to pretend to like him and have him fall deeply in love with me and then when i get back from summer break kiss Josh (which he will definetly not mind :) and break hi heart like he broke D's. Well so far today rocked! it was the first day that me and eric have been away from my parents and grandparents and we got icecream and built a huge sand castle and i loved it... Eric still has no idea im using him right now but I wanna tell him without losing my friendship with my BFF its so confusing i know but I think i like him.. Ive been here a week with him and im already breaking my best friends heart if she found out that tonight, I wanna sneak out of his grandparents cabin ( that were in alone.) and go swimming with him at like 3 in the morning.. yeahh i already have it all planned :)
my question is how do i kep the guy and teh best friend because i dont want D mad and i couldnt live without Eric.
Help me!!
Hey, well you need to tell your friend straight out that you dont want to do that to eric because its not right. Yeah, its unfortunate that he did that to her, but it doesnt make it right for you to do to him, especially since he didnt do anything to you. Its also a bitchy thing to like him as soon as he breaks up wiht your BEST FRIEND. You need to give it time, but tell her that you will probably be close friends with eric because your spending so much time together up there. It might hurt her at first, but she has the right to know. Leave out the part that yuo like him tho, wait until you return from there, than explain your troubles with how you like eric. If shes a true friend, she`ll understand and not want you to miss out on an oppurtinty on a relationship, even if its with her ex.
(Rating: 5) i love our advice but I need you help still which may sound rediculos well I went to one of my cousins friends party and I told Eric i wasnt in the mood to drink and i wanted to be alone with him I wanted to tell him the truth about the holl feelings. Well I did. It didnt go so well and now he refuces to even look at me he tinks everyting ive done with him is a lie. Well he called D before I had the approtunity.. and she didnt like it either! she was like your not saposed to tell him!!! and now shes mad and me when all i wanted to do is make things right. She was like your trying to steal my boyfriend and i was like hes not yours!! so things arent smooth with her Eric got drunk last night but still remembered that he hates me and that he's not lseeping in the same room with me. At the moment I want Eric more then anything. D holds grudges and when I get back and she finds out say im going out with eric if he'll ever talk to me shes gunna mess it up I know it! she'll make Josh kiss me right infront of Eric or something I donno use your imagineation trust me! HOw do I get Him to talk to me..!