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my name is elizabeth. i love to have fun. i've experienced a lot for my age. i love too easily. i have goals for myself. i'm an open book so ask anything you'd like.
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Well, on one hand, there's my ex who I still love alot, and she's just everything I could ever want. She knows I still love her and she loves me still, too. Only problem is that she isn't sure that she wants a relationship right now.

On the other hand, there's this girl I met through a mutual friend and we clicked as soon as we met. We both love each other [Yeah, actual love, not just liking] and we're perfect for each other. Problem here is that she lives in Ohio and I live in New York. Now, we both hate long distance relationships so that's not an option.

I really love both of these girls, but there's obstacles in the way of both. What should I do? (link)
think about the qualities of each and which would suit you more. then you kind of have to be careful about dating one of them because if you love them both, you can't really date one, ya know? just doesn't seem fair. try to just sort out your feelings, be logical, and decide what you would and wouldn't be comfortable with. try talking to each one separately, leaving the other completely out of the conversation.
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Thanks alot, this really really helped. I did what you said and I realized that my ex is the one who I really, truly love, and that the Ohio girl, I just love the idea of her. I'm just gonna let things flow naturally and if we're meant to happen again, which I hope with all my life that we are, then it'll happen. I really just hope she feels the same way about me as I do about her.




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