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ok so i consider myself punk/emo. and theirs this girl in my school she called me a poser! and i dont kow why. i listen to rock music, and i thought i had my sense of style. i really dont think i am a poser. she told me jsut cuz i dress that way doesnt amke a rocker.
so i am asking what makes people rockers? i listen to rock. heavy metal so i dont get it? what should i do like make up sheos and clothes. thanks. iwant to improve my style

If you're happy with your style, you don't need to improve it because one person called you a poser. If you listen to rock music and dress like a rocker, what else can you do? The only way this girl could have any reasoning behind her calling you a poser is if you are dressing this way and listening to rock music just to fit in with a certain crowd. If so, you need to think about who you really want to be, not who your new friends want you to be.

But, if you've always been a "punk/emo"... don't listen to her. But also, don't define yourself by that terminology. You can be many things, not just a punk.

Good luck =)

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(Rating: 5) hey thanks that was really helpful

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