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15/f. I've never had a boyfriend before. And looking around me, I see people who have boyfriends. And it kind of tears me apart. I want to have a relationship like that with someone. I want to be close with someone. But I don't know how to go about doing that...getting one. I'm sometimes even embarrassed at the fact that there are 13 and 12 year olds who have had boyfriends, and those who've changed them many times. Do I care if he's older? No. I just really want one. Going on 16 and entering the 10th grade, I feel as though I will never get one. Is being smart a turn off? :( I wouldn't consider myself ugly either. But my self-confidence isn't that high. I don't have many real friends....which is why I want a boyfriend. Any help and advice would be very appreciated. =] Sorry for making it so long.

its never too late. your saving youself alot of drama though. your waiting for that one i think. and being smart is a total turn on for guys i think. im pretty dim-witted and most guys think more low of me and that im easy - dude im 13! its a hard feeling knowing that there are people younger than you having something you dont have trust me i know the feeling. Alot of Guys like the girls with looks and brains and you said you have both so theres nothing to worry about. your fine. your just waiting for that one boy who sweeps you off your feet. and dont go out with someone just because you feel like you have to. i still remember my first boyfriend and i know i always will, you know its that one boyfriend your almost for sure to remember. just dont make a bad descion and i know you'll do fine. as for your friends. if their not real their not worth your time, and dont have a boyfriend to make up for that. i really hope you dont go out with someone because you feel like you have to. good luck.

- brittany.

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