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Life is confusing and mistakes are only a part of human nature, no one is perfect and sometimes the right answer isnt always clear...but, when you find knowledge and understanding, its what you do with it that defines your character and who you are as a person.For myself, Ive made a lot of choices in my life, good and bad. Yet, the experiences and the lessons that have come from them have taught me to be who I am today, and without the bad times or wrong choices, I wouldn't be the person I am today or know the things I do. Pain and suffering Is something life gives you because it brings out the strength in your character and shows you what you're made of.
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15/f. I've never had a boyfriend before. And looking around me, I see people who have boyfriends. And it kind of tears me apart. I want to have a relationship like that with someone. I want to be close with someone. But I don't know how to go about doing that...getting one. I'm sometimes even embarrassed at the fact that there are 13 and 12 year olds who have had boyfriends, and those who've changed them many times. Do I care if he's older? No. I just really want one. Going on 16 and entering the 10th grade, I feel as though I will never get one. Is being smart a turn off? :( I wouldn't consider myself ugly either. But my self-confidence isn't that high. I don't have many real friends....which is why I want a boyfriend. Any help and advice would be very appreciated. =] Sorry for making it so long.
DONT YOU WORRY:) ITs definitely not too late and 15 is young still believe it or not, you got lots of time. Some of my girlfriends are beautifull girls WITH good personality too and they never found boyfriends till they were 17 / 18. Even if you didn't find a boyfriend by then, there is still tons of time and guaranteed, one will come. I was barely lucky to snag an actual boyfriend when I was 15 too. Although I had many guys who liked me, or I liked them, and many guy friends, nothing ever came to result to an actual boyfriend boyfriend and I began to wonder too. But, now I can say Ive had millions (well not millions) but enough that I cant even remember that well going out with a few of them (probablly why Im not with them anymore) Anywho, my point is, be patient and they will come, and once one breaks the single streak its like the rest keep coming from there. SO DONT WORRY OR BE SAD OR FEEL DOWN ON YOURSELF. Sometimes I found too, especially when I saw people (girls who had bf's) and I was like well why cant I get one? She doesnt have anything different from what I have. BUt the truth is, sometimes guys can actually be intimidated by you because youre so pretty and they believe that because of this, you're either a snob or already have a boyfriend therefore, they don't even try. Meanwhile, your wondering whats wrong with you when really, theyre just scared of being turned down or rejected by you when really, that's not the case at ALL. But, like I said, it will all come in time so enjoy single life right now because that can be just as fun in a whole different way and GUARANTEED, you wont always be single, its just a matter of time. Also, you have to be able to put yourself in a place where you can meet guys and an environment where they can approach you, because your not going to meet anyone if your sitting at home. SO, get out there and meet real friends (i know you're saying easier said than done, but thats not true, if you're a good person and believe your fun to be around then true friends will find you) so that way you have someone that you can go and have some fun with and be in places where guys can see you actually exist and that they want to get to know you. BUT LIKE I SAID, BE PATIENT, and no matter what you do, you'll eventually find a boyfriend:)
(Rating: 5) Thank you very much! This was very helpful =]]!