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18/f
my boyfriend and i want to try something new with our sexual life- a threesome.
i don't want to with one of my friends and he doesn't have any female friends.
where can we find someone who will try this with us? and would we be safe using a condom, or can you still get STDs with those? (link)
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That sounds like an interesting idea and actually my boyfriend and I are in the same situation. We have thought about going to a gay bar and meeting a bi-sexual girl that is attractive to both of us. it sounds kind of dirty, but I would be more comfortable with someone I wasn't going to have to see on a daily basis. You could spend a little time with the girl first to kind of get to know her before you drop it on her of what your wanting to do or you could just straight up ask her. If you just flat out asked her and she said no, it would be the end of the story. You'd probably never see her again and it really wouldn't matter. If you devoloped a friendship first, your boyfriend may decide he actually likes her. And thats my biggest issue with having a three-some. I'm usually not the jealous type, but I can't help but thinking that since he's been with me so long, maybe he'll enjoy having another girl around and decide he wants to explore whats out there and maybe take a break from me or something.
As for using a condom. It's safe but then again not safe. Since its one guy, you two girls aren't going to be protected from each other. He will be protected, but as he switches back and forth having sex, your bodily fluids are being passes from girl to girl. So your not really safe.
Good luck and have lots of fun!
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