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15f im sorry if its long please just bare with me i really need help.
i cant stand living in my house anymore. my mom only comes here just to argue. she says ive changed alot and i know i have but thats all part of growing up. she always hits me and im sick of it. i dont know what to do. i want to leave so badly. she tells me that she doesnt love me as much as she used to. and that really hurts me. i just entered highschool and life is getting so hard for me. my grades are getting low, my boyfriend of 9 months broke up with me, my family is falling apart especially my mom she comes to my room to hit me or to scream at me everyday. she argues so mmuch. i cant stand this anymore. i ahte living here. i hate my new school i jsut hate my life. i really dont know what to do. i cant stand my mom. she is so annoying. im sick of her just coming into my room to argue. also, its summer break im supposed to be out with my friends having a good time and she says she sint going to let me go out anymor. she says im grounded for the whole summer. i want to go out with my friends, to the beach the pool the park the movies. i hate her! i dont know what to do. she wont let me do anything. my life is hard enough. please help
Okay, first you GOTTA to a deep breath...........now let it out. Now, I know the last thing you need is someone telling you "Everythign will be okay", but I promise you it will be. School....especially high school....will always have its ups and downs but you can get through it...talk to your teachers abotu your grade....maybe get a tutor or a friend to help you out...talk to your teachers about extra credit and such. Boys come and go throughout our lives....and even thoguh ya'll were going out for a while- maybe its best yall broke up now you can concentrate on grade and such. If you really miss him though....talk to him because communicatation is a HUGGGEEEE thing!!! And thats what I gotta say about your mom...yes shes your mom but you gotta learn what to take in and what not to....and even though shes your mom- ANYBODY WHOSE SCREAMING AND YELLING AT YOU, SAYING THINGS THAT LOWER YOUR SELF-ESTEEM....THATS NOTTTTTT SOMETHING THAT SHOULD EVER ENTER YOUR MIND OR HEART. Mom or not, nobody should be talked to like that okay? The best thing I can tell you is you need to sit down and TALK to your mom. Tell her how you feel and how when she says that stuff it really hurts. Tell her you know your changing and thats why you need your space but most of all SUPPORT!!!!! from her!!!! Try getting maybe a friend and her mom in it and TOGETHER yall can figure out how to resolve the issue? Just be honest and tell her how your entering school and times are hard and her screaming and hitting isnt helping. I really hope this helps...Good Luck!!!
(Rating: 5) aww thnaks great advice!