Member Since: June 14, 2007
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Last Update: June 30, 2007
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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =] (link)
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This is a really great topic, for anyone who hasn't lost it, oh my goodness keep it untill a guy puts a ring on your finger! and i mean a real ring, not somethink he picked up at K-mart for twenty dollars. I lost mine when i was 14 years old. His name was Alex and i made him wait a year, funny thing--- our relationship after that decision, was that decision, and we split 3 months later. We were in love for a year and then fell apart by sex. After that i did have sex with other people. And i dont know if it was just me but it just made me feel worse about my self image, and these guys, by just using me this way, ran me to the ground. Well atleast, thats how i felt, thats how i still feel looking back. However there is a light at the end of the tunnel in my story. I took a year to be salivant and just have friends, and casualy hang out with guys. But things changed, these guys were gentlemen (not about getting in my pants, just wanted a friend who was a girl to talk to.) And the friends i made in that year, are still there for me every second i start to doubt myself. My suggestion to everyone who hasn't lost it--- wait untill you meet a guy who is worth your virginity (you only get one!) And for any of you girls out there reading this who have regretfuly lost it--- I did to and i've never been more happy to be where i am now. Theres so much more than sex. Sex is big, but so is memories that will last forever. I will admit that i currently have a boyfriend, a real gentlemen that im happy to be engaged to.
take it easy... love stacie
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