Hi there.. My name is Kirsten.. I'm 21, I live in a small country town in South Australia, Australia. I love life, I love giving advice to anyone who needs it. I have a boyfriend of 5 years and were very much in lurrve ;) Feel free to ask me anything guys and gals.. thats what i'm here for. If I don't know the answer to your questions i'll try my best to give you what I know.. Have fun, live life to the fullest and ask away... ;) xoxo
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Age: 21
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can i hear your story? do you regret it? thoughts/feeling now? still in a relationship with that guy? or was it a one night stand? I'm just curiouss pleasee && thank you for readingg and respondingg =] (link)
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Hi there,
I had sex for the first time at 17, I was almost 18. That night was the best night of my life. I had been with my boyfriend for nearly 12 months.
Sex wasn't really an issue until one night he sat me down and told me that he loved me, amoung other stuff that was said but he never once bought up the subject or put pressure on me. I just fell head over heels for him, I knew then that he was thr right person for me.
Then about 3 months later I stayed at his house and I said to him that I was ready to take a relationship to the next step.
He asked me if I was sure and never pressured me into anything. I told him that I loved him and that I was completely ready to give myself to him.
It hurt a little but he was so gentle and so loving and caring. The cuddles after were amazing.. just how he held me tight until the morning it was so perfect.
We are still together nearly 2 and a half years later and plan to move in together within the next 12 months. Alot of people judge me because i've only been with the one guy but whats the point in looking else where if you love each other.
Overall my night was perfect, our relationship was and still is strong and we trust each other. Not to mention I was his first too. He was 19 at the time.
Look if you feel that you are ready then no one can stop you. Just prepare yourself emotionally and be safe. You don't want to become pregnant.
Talk to your guy perhaps. Just don't let things turn bad. But no one can decide for you. It's your choice. Good luck.
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gooodd advice :) im gladd your still together with your boyy.
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