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Hi, my name is Katie and I'm 15 years old. In those fifteen years I've literally been through more than most people go through in their entire life. I absolutely love helping people, and I've been told by many people that I'm good at it. I'll definitely love to give you advice, but I'm telling you right now I will say what I think, I'm not going to sugar coat everything or tell you what you want to hear just so you'll give me good ratings. So if you have any questions, about anything at all, just ask away, I'd be more than happy to help =]
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Okay my mom has had the worst marriage with her husband. He has left her twice and they have only been married for four years. He's been gone more then he`s liver with her. He always finds women off the internet off them find a mate type things. && my mom will think everything is fine && he`ll up && leave. there is so much more that goes on at home when he`s here. when he lives her he basically lives off her because he can`t get a decent job basically because he doesn`t have a highschool diploma. he always calls me names && tries to put me and my brother and sister down. my mom is in such denial its not even funny she trusts him way to much he has stole alot of money from her and she still gives him her bank card. my mom is jus too nice.

so i want to know is there anyway i can see if hes been looking up women. i know our history is empty and i don`t understand the recycling bin thing. so if you can please help that would be great. (link)
I'm not really computer savvy, and I think the only way to really search it up is to take someone who knows how to dig deep for that stuff. Next time he's on the computer keep your mom near you and sort of talk with her but keep an eye on what he's doing as well. Be sneaky about it, don't let him know. Try to catch him in the act, that's all I can say.
But if that doesn't work, which it might not, then just open up your moms eyes. It sounds like she needs a HUGE wake up call.
In the end it's going to come down to your mom being the adult and kicking him out.

I really hope everything works out for the best!
One of my best friends is going through the same situation, and I know how hard it is on you!!
Stay strong!!

-Katie


Rating: 5
Thanks so much =)




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