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well, i'm 15 and i'm definitely not having sex before marriage. me and bf are sure of that and are strong with our beliefs.
but for me, i'm little lost on some things. i would just like to be a little bit smarter with the subject.
1st - is ejaculation (for both guys and girls)good or bad? is it gross? does it get on anything?
2nd - what are orgasms for? what do they do? why do people always ask about them?
3rd - what is "popping the cherry"? is it bad? is it something to watch out for? does it hurt?
4th - and when i am married i'm a little afraid to have sex because a lot of people say it can and can't hurt and girls can always can get pregnant. is there anything to really be afraid of? what is there to really watch out for?
5th - how well do condoms work? would condoms work everytime we would have sex?
thanx for answering...
1. Ejaculation or "cumming" is good. For the guys it means that they've reached their maximum pleasure & they have "gotten off" as some people call it. (Without condoms, this is the spirm to fertalize the woman's egg to make babys). For girls, you don't have to ejaculate to reach maximum pleasure, in most cases you usually ejaculate or "cum" many times before your maximum pleasure has been reached. Another reason girls ejaculate is for lubrication. Sometimes, the girl & guy are both "dry" & there is friction between the vagina & the penis which can cause irritation after sex.
2. Orgasims are when the girl or guy (which ever one is having the orgasim) has reached their maximum pleasure in sex. It's an outrageous feeling during sex that everyone goes for when they are being intimate. What usually happens during an orgasim is some muscles contract (muscle spasms) you get "wet" (cumming) & you sometimes get dizzy. A great feeling goes through your legs, back, & neck. It varies from person to person.
3. I don't know mush about "popping the cherry" but I'll give you what I do know. Popping the cherry is when the skin inside a girl's vagina is ripped during their first time of having sex. The girl bleeds when this happens & unfortunally it does hurt. For me, I had my cherry popped the second time my boyfriend & I ever had sex, but for most people, it's the first time.
4. As I said before in #3 it does hurt the first couple times you do it, but after the vagina gets used to it, it feels great. ;) The only thing you need to really worry about are STDs. & before you're married you & your partner should get tested to prevent the spreading. Condoms prevent STDs but just as anything, they are never 100% accurate. & if you're worried about getting pregnant, get on the pill & use a condom. That will lessen your chances of getting pregnant if you use two sources of protection. & some people even use the "before & after pill". You take these before & after sex. It does somethign to the woman's egg & prevents you from getting pregnant. However, I wouldn't only use this method. People usually don't use this pill unless they are afraid that their other way of protection has failed.
5. The guy puts the condom (a rubber slip) over his penis & when he ejaculates or "cums" it goes in the condom rather than into the woman. & causes her to not get pregnant. Condoms are never 100% accurate with keeping people from getting pregnant. But they are pretty accurate. But, they can rip or fail if the expiration date has exceeded.
Hope I have helped. :)
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thanks. you helped. =]
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