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Q: Im 13.
I'm the type of girl who is really shy
infront of really any guys but close friends.
I want to get to know some guys, like
become good friends. But im like reeeeeeeally shy.
What to i do.
guys will become friends with you if you talk to them and are more louder. guys dont really get along with shy girls theyd think ur just in it for the prize. if you never talk youll probly never make new guy friends. most guys want girls to start. so... just talk to guys try to open up to more people. start a random convo with them. talk about food or something. most guys will get along with girls better then guys most girls will get along better with guys i do. before you do it try to become more confident and louder around strangers. guys (and i) HATE posers dont be one theyd probly tell you to fuck off if you come up acting totally different. and they do dont be so gushy or flirty dont be in it for a relationship dont be a poser dont be too shy dont cry and act for attention. just be yourself but be louder and more confident. i have alot of friends that are girls and guys. just DONT TREAT THEM ANY DIFFERENT THEN GIRLS although no kissy and emotional at the beginning. i might add more later well probly will... so far i got this answer from guys so it should help. and not in a mean way but gay guys are hott and make great friends for most girls who have always had girls as friends their normal and if you are like ooo a gay guy they will probly beat you up bc a guy friend i have is gay and did beat someone up for doing that. none of this is mean its just true. just be normal their not a different species their human

Thanks,
That made alot of since, just be myself
practically is what your saying. Dont
do anything too out there and annoying.
But dont just stand there like you just
wanna go off and mess around then leave
them off or something. I gatcha. And i have
no affence whatsoever to gay guys. My
aunt is lesbian and my Uncle was gay, but
he past away.. Its all good.
Thanks for the help!

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i hated i loved i tried i lived i lied i loved i cried i cut i screamed i nearly died i ve lost some family some friends to hate and death...yea normal kid...

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