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Q: I am 13/f, me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months. My friends absolutly hate my boyfriend. I can see why though. He is always calling my friends names!! It gets on there nerves and even my nerves quite often! Its nothing bad like, fat, ugly, ect. but its like your stupid, your a loser, and, like blonde jokes. So far all of my friends told me i should break up with him. Isn't that crazy?!? Even some of them say that if i dont break up with him, then we wont be friends anymore. So they are asking me; me, or your boyfriend? I dont know. i really love my boyfriend, and love my friends. i sure am in a mess.

Thanks for all the comments/advice, it is well appreciated.

Tell your boyfriend that its not right for him to say those things. You really love him but you love your friends too. Theres no reason your friends and boyfriend cant get along. Make sure your boyfriend Apologizes or acts nicer to them. Your friends are going to be more stubborn then your boyfriend. Trust me.
I had to deal with this A few months ago. My friends boyfriend stood up on a chair and Told the whole homerom who I like I couldnt believe it.I hated him but he Apologized and picked me on ihs teams and I knew he didnt like me but he was trying to apologize and make up for it. Just trust me on this.Just make sure You have a balancing act between your friends and Boyfriend too.

Rating: 5

thank you sooo much.
sure did help!!!

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