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ok, so, my name is vanessa! i' a real fun crazy gal =) I'm 19 years old, and about to start my second year of college! i love to challenge myself, to be with my friends, help them out to the max that i can.. mainly reson why am here.. duh lol i love you help people =) and can simply be a great listener. I've been through a lot in my life already... i guess that can be both good and bad. But that means i have some experience about a little bit of everything!
like I said, am in college, am in love with this amazing guy whom i've been with for over a year and a half, am bi, have been in love, have had my heart broken, have been places, study, work, and well, am crazy =) hahaha! in a good way ;-)
so, anyway, ask away anything thats on your mind =) no matter how crazy or whatnot, i'll ceratintly be here to try my best to help =)
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I'm unsure if I want to go to university or not. I do want to get a good job and everything and get a degree, but it's a long time to spend there if you're not really that into higher education. Plus it's seriously expensive and I don't want to move too far away from home.
I've thought about taking a gap year, working to get some money saved up and then either doing a part time Business Management course or something, but I'd be 20 by the time I decided to go. Arghh dunno what to do.
I know not going to uni isn't the end of the world, but I'm so confused!
I think it is important for you to try to go.... let me start there.
And about the gap year... not a good idea. One always says a year, but eventually that turns into two and so on and soforth...
What you might want to think about doing, islook into some near by colleges. Specially community colleges. Or suny colleges. They're not that expensive compared to other private colleges and universities. Once there, you'll get in the mood =) and it'll go really fast! I'm already in my second year of college, and i swear, it just flew by! And it really will help you in the end! not only will you have gained more knowledge and be a candidate for a better job, but you'll enjoy the expirience too =) the new faces, new views, new freedoms.... new opportunities =)
much love and luck!
VB
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