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I know it's wrong to fall in love with your teacher, but I mean, I can't help my heart can I? Recently I've caught a lot of feelings for one of my teachers, who is by the way only in his early or mid 20's (i'm 16). I tried to make myself not like him, but as days go by and I have to see him everyday, there's nothing I can do except like him even more. It's getting to the serious point where, I think about him almost all day and at times I get really depressed just for the simple fact that I know I'll never have him. Plus, he's one of these strict teachers who is very conscious that he is handsome, so he keeps a barrier btw him & his students, which only makes him less attainable. Sometimes I catch him looking at me, & I also understand before a teacher he's a man, but I also get paranoid because he knows embarrassing and/or personal things about me that no one else does...i have problems i know, but It's really not my fault...I'd appreciate the help & concern...Thankz (link)
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I was very much in love with a teacher at 13, but he was 43... I pretty much forgot about him in a matter of months after the 7th grade year ended. I'm sure that this same thing will happen to you, after you stop seeing this teacher. Trust me. But, at this point in your life he is unattainable because he probably is engaged/married/in a relationship. There's always the chance that, once you're 18 and if you still have these deep feelings for him that you can find him again and maybe he'd call you? or you could call him.
It is perfectly normal to be in love with a teacher. I know everyone goes through it at least once.
He won't want to be considered a pedophile by dating you, i mean, think of the reputation he would have if he was dating a 16-yr-old girl!
He's probably looking at you becuase you're pretty, or because he can tell that you have feelings for him, or because he thinks you're not paying attention. But who knows?
For the time being, involve yourself in something you enjoy- or let yourself fall for someone closer to your age. Then you'll be happy because you'll have a relationship with someone who returns your feelings.
I hope I helped.
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Thanx so0o0 much for the advice, i know i have to let this go, but the bad part is i have to see him everyday for the next to years still...
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