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i'm kathleen.
i'm thirteen years old.
i've been through alot.
i'm absolutely nothing special, and you'll find i'm nothing that will amaze you.
i have trust issues.
i hate many things, such as animal abuse, and labels.
i'm a vegitarian, and i don't drink milk.
i sometimes talk alot, sometimes i'm really quiet.
get to know me: kathleenxsaidd- AIM.

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13. my bestfriend was abused im many ways. her mom was a drug addict. her mom gave her drugs through shots and made her smoke and used many different drugs on her. her and her 2 sisters. my friend stopped growing but got on so many medicines and started again this year. she has 2 skin diseases and extremely deep smokers cough. her mom left her alone in a different state when she was in kindergarten. later her mom went to jail. her and her sisters went to her aunts. all this happened when she was 4 till 10. shes now in depression and hides everything and all she does is screams yells and stares. she still cant get over it she had no idea it was bad. now shes paranoid of drugs or even smoking or alcohaul anything like that she was abused with. now were doing d.a.r.e to resist drugs its a daily year round thing. and she has to do it and she doesnt say a word the whole time or just actually cries she never crys. i feel so bad for her. she got a restraining order on her mom and her mom is in jail till the end. her mom also had mental problems/ alot of people are doing drugs and everything already and when she sees someone she tries to kill them or atleast punch them to the ground. she is normal other than depression and being paranoid of drugs and stuff. how do i get her to leave others alone SHE SHOULDNT TRY TO KILL PEOPLE. how do i stop her how do i help her a therepist didnt work. i fell soo bad for her ill do anything for her. she cant get over it i know itll be hard. i need help to help her. HOW!

Oh wow. That's horrible. The most you can do, like someone below me had said, is let her know that you will be there for her through everything. It's sickening to think about what a horrible mother she had. Well, I think you may actually be able to make a little bit of a difference. If you talk to her, let her tell you anything and everything she wants to tell you. If she wants to scream at you and throw things, let her do it. If she wants to cry so hard she throws up, let her do it. However, don't let her hurt herself or make physical contact with another person in a negative way. Basically, sit her in a closed room, like a bedroom, and tell her she can talk to you. Let her get it all out, ALL OF IT. Maybe that will make her feel a bit better. After she does that, let her know that you love her, and her mother is never going to get her again, and she'll NEVER be forced to do something she doesn't want to again. Tell her that she's free, and she will be from now on. Her mother is locked up, and she won't be coming out.

Try to introduce her to some more of her friends, maybe give her a makeover or something [if you guys are into that]. Make her become more social, but ensure she's friends with the right people, if you know what I mean.

It's a really tough situation that your friend, and you, are in. Most of all be strong and if you believe in God, I suggest you pray for her. Remeber, even if she gives you some attitude or a hard time when you try to help her, ignore it. She's scared, just keep that in mind. Good Luck! Let me know how things turn out.

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(Rating: 5) were both gothic and so are our friends it makes her happier because shes always letting everything out through chains peircings trippers skulls to deep demon screaming thanks anywayss
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