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You know what?
I'm going through the EXACT same thing.
Here's what I did; and it DEFINITLY worked, by the way.
You go to that party.
You have fun.
You BRING ANOTHER GUY.
A guy friend of yours.
As evil as this may sound, honestly, it's not.
Trust me.
And you're not nescaecarily using your guy friend.
You're just having fun with him.
In front of this guy that you claim "has missed his chance"
And he definitly has.
I mean, seriously.
Apparently, as it sounds to me,
this guy is a pimp.
Or a loser.
You are OBVIOUSLY a sweet girl who just wants a sweet guy to care about them.
I mean, what girl DOESN'T want that?
I know I do.
But some guys just aren't worth it.
And as you think he is,
He's liking someone else WHILE giving YOU mixed emoitions on how you feel.
wtf.
Either he likes you or he DOESN'T.
He's trying to do both and that's not possible.
There's going to end up being a huge collision at the end.
So...
I suggest you "make him jealous" and make him see that you're definitly worth his time and that you can have fun and be the girl of his dreams.
He will be missing you within... ohh... I give it a couple dayss.
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Seriously.
He's an idiot and one of these days, you're gonna pop in his head and he's gonna regret EVERYTHING he's ever done negatively to you.
He'll wanna take it all back and wish that it was YOU he had liked instead of some girl he apparently will never have a chance with.
You're smart.
And you deserve wayy better.
I say you follow your heart.
Go with what your gut says.
Go with what you think feels right.
No.
Go with what you KNOW feels right.
If you doubt anything, it's probably not a good idea to go after it.
You should be sure of yourself.
And quit being so confused.
I mean, I know he is confusing you.
But don't let him.
If he did that to you, he obviously is confused about YOU so if you show him how secure and sure of yourself that you are, all of HIS confusion will disappear and he'll realize that the girl he's liked has been under his nose the entire time; he just never realized it.
I hate to be so harsh but...
You're what they call a "rebound girl".
I am too, don't worry.
A "rebound girl" situation occurs much like yours.
You like the guy, the guy likes you, the guy starts liking other girls, when the girls don't like the guy, the guy comes crawling back to you, the "rebound girl".
It's a stupid situation and VERY hard to get out of.
And the only way you can get out of it, EVEN IF YOU LIKE HIM VERRYYYY MUCH, is to turn him down.
Show him that you CAN live without him and you WILL if he doesn't man up and be SURE of himself for once.
I mean, how stupid can you get?
haha
But anyways,
I could write a book on the topic.
And I really do hope I helped you in ANY way and I'm extremely sorry if I didn't.
If you ever need to talk, you can always message me.
My myspace link is on my page and my AIM screen name is wtfkayluh1
So we can talk if you want.
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I love updates and would LOVE to hear about your situation and how it goes AFTERWARDS.
And see if it helped.
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kthnx.
Remember, I'm here if you need to talk.
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