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i'm kathleen.
i'm thirteen years old.
i've been through alot.
i'm absolutely nothing special, and you'll find i'm nothing that will amaze you.
i have trust issues.
i hate many things, such as animal abuse, and labels.
i'm a vegitarian, and i don't drink milk.
i sometimes talk alot, sometimes i'm really quiet.
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advice

ok well i have this x boyfriend miguel...he means so much to me but and he wants to get back with me but i told him dat i dont know if i still like him or what because it was kind of fucked up wat he did b4...so then now he cuts himself and today he saw me walking with my guy friend and my guy friend touched my shoulder and i was playing with him and i said "dont touch me dork!" and then miguel lost control and was like"yeah only i could touch her" and he hugged me all hard and pushed me into the lockers and tried to kiss me...the thing is he smelled like liquor and i asked wat was wrong with him and he said he had been drinking. then he couldnt keep his balance and was still trying to kiss me and since i kept pushing him back he started crying telling me how bad i made him feel and all this crap! i was actually gonna give him the 2nd chance but he treated me like shit in front of all those people and then some guy saw that i was pushing him away and was about to go do something about it. the thing is that i dont know what to do!! what could i do to stop him from doing all dis b/s? i know hes a great guy but hes depending his life on me and my actions and thats just to much for me to handle you know!!
so what do i do so he could stop?
should i go back with him and try to make him realise how bad hes handling things or do i stay away from him?
keep in mind that i want to have fun with people and not have to worry about "cheating" but i would be able to give up my freedom for him because i know how much i can help his situation but.......idk what about my life?=//
help!

Hey. You need to tell someone. Cutting yourself is not okay, and neither is drinking. How old is this kid, old enough to be drinking? Doesn't sound it..
You NEED to tell someone, becuase this kid seems like he's not just one of those people who are cutting to get attention and could stop if they wanted to. I know from experience, that shit's addicting. As for drinking, you need to tell someone for that, too. He could grow up and become an alchoholic, and do bad things with his life.
You need to tell a guidence councelor, or a parent, or even a teacher. But do NOT get back with this kid. I know you feel very bad for him, but if you go back with him, it's going to make things worse, please don't do it. You could talk to him, tell him you care about him, but this will not continue if he wants you to keep talking to him, he has to stop with the cutting and the drinking. He could do something really stupid if it continues, that may cost his life.
Some important questions I need to ask...
1. how old are you? and how old is he?
2. where exactly on himself is he cutting? (shoulders, wrists, forearms ect.)
3. are his cuts deep, or surface cuts that are a cry for attention?

Bottom line, tell someone, and DO NOT go back with this kid, he's trouble.. and MAKE SURE you tell someone, ANYONE. If you care about him, you'll get him help. He's obviously got some sort of disease, such as depression, or bipolar disorder.. and they're serious and can lead to serious things including suicide. So, TELL SOMEONE.

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(Rating: 5) THX ii SEE WUT YOUR SAYING AND WELL ABOUT YOUR QUESTIONS...
im 14 and hes 15.
he cuts his wrists and his whole arms like not the front part of it but the other side you know?
nah his cuts are surface cuts and he says that he does it because it feels good and it takes his pain&depression away.hes on medication already but the thing is hes been doing it for about 2 yrs ever since his x girlfriend "broke his heart" wich was the reason we broke up but anywho his parents know about this but they "understand" him and why it is he does it...idk maybe bad parenting? who knows the point is he worries me!=|
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