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HEY EVERYONE, I'M KAT!
and i'm here to help :)
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my boyfriend ((my first)) just asked me to go to the movies with him. first date. i didnt answer yet because i think hes gonna "make a move" and kiss me, but im not ready for that at all. we just stareted going out on a few days ago. i want to blow it off. i dont want to tell him that im not ready to kiss him or anythingg. what do i do! i need an answer quick! (link)
Alright, so what I'd do in your situation, is to tell him your parents aren't going to let you go alone with him, so try to bring a group of friends along with you. That will make it harder for him to 'make a move.' You could also count it as double dating, and if you think he's going to try anything, and you really really don't want to go through with it, just start talking to your friend.
If you're REALLY nervous and totally against it, talk to him about it. He should respect that you don't want to kiss on the first date or anything.

Hope this has helped some..
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Kat


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thanks. the only thing is that today was the first day (that ive been going out with him) that it wasnt that akward to TALK to him. im scared about the whole situation!




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