What can I say? I'm fourteen, freshman, currently located in Alpharetta, GA. Born in Orlando, FL, I live for excitement. My greatest passion is singing. I don't really follow the asian sterotype, except sometimes. I want to go to FIT in NYC or Parson's New School. Most of the time, I listen to MyChem or HSM or techno. All I watch on TV is Disney Channel, Fuse, and Charmed. I think the strangest thing about me is how I dress. I can be classic: long skirts, trench coat, high heels or boots, etc. or casual: jeans, t-shirts, heels, sweaters, etc. or other: band shirts, converse, studded belts, black jeans, eyeliner, etc.
I usually focus on love life questions, but I can do everything. I guess I'm better at love life because I don't have one of my own =P
You can ask me for advice here, email me if you want, whatever. I'll answer. Promise =]
Yeah, I'm crazy. But you learn to love me.
E-mail: potobubbletea@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Orlando, FL
Occupation: Student; Singer, fashion designer
Age: 14
Member Since: June 18, 2006
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so i really like my best friend and he means the world to me but there is a slight problem. he always flirts with me so everyone thinks he likes me. i mean if a guy held your hand wouldnt you think so too? anyways i had a friend tell him that shes seen us together all the time and that we should go out. so then he told me what she said and i just said oh really and he said yea but thats what everyone said about this other girl and me and then you know how that ended up. (they broke after a week) i think he doesnt want a relationship or isnt exactly ready for one, actually im pretty sure thats it. but my friends were asking him if he likes me and he gets annooyed and or says i dont know or changes the subject. so hes a tough one to crack. what should i do? should i just continue to be friends that like eachother but arent dating? i mean whatever he wants is fine with me, its not worth being a mess over this. im pretty sure he does like me but i dont really know since he wont say. anyways thanx sorry this is long. i love you guys.
btw 14/f (link)
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Man, you're in the same hubbub I was in earlier this year (8th grade). I didn't actually think this happened to other people, but lo behold, it does. Anyway, I'm jsut going to tell you what I did and you can pick and choose. Just go with it for now. Stay friends like you have been, but try to get closer. Not obviously closer, just slightly so he knows you're interested. After a while (yes, this is an on-going-patience-required process), you'll start to notice whether he likes you back or not. My guy asked me to dance. We fell out because he was really shy and by the time he got the courage to ask me out, I didn't like him anymore, but when you're sure of it, you can talk to him about it. For now, just be friends and hang out a lot and go from there. If he makes some move to show that he likes you, go for it. If you say he's shy and tentative, YOU go talk to him about your status (after you're sure he likes you). Ask him whether he likes you or not (truly) and if you're going out. Because I had this ongoing this for about 3 monthes and we were practically dating, but if was never official. So when it's like that, talk to you. And have your friends stop bugging him. It does get awfully annoying. Sorry for my endless blabbering. I'm an all-out person. And if you're guy really likes you, he'll probably say something eventually. Mine didn't because he was the biggest nerd in school and that's how he is =P
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heh my guy is the biggest nerd in skool too, no lie hes too smart. lol but yea he and i are about as close as it gets without actually making it official. i love this guy hes so awesome i hope we can be friends forever if not more. anyways yea its good to know there are other people that have gone through this. thank you so much. =)
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