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hello everyone. well i'm pretty much wondering what to do to be pretty? i know this is a stupid question, but how do i FEEL pretty when i'm truly not at all. i have no self confidence and my self esteem is extremly low. it's been since i can remember. i pick out everything on my body and critize it. people tell me to shut up, and tell me i'm pretty but i just feel like they're just trying to be nice. i don't know how to take a compliment, and i just don't feel like i do anything right. i don't know it's just getting terrible. i feel like i'm 1000 pounds, and discusting.
-if anyone has any help, that'd be amazing.
thanks in advance.
Hi. I'm sorrie you hear that. This is how I look at it. If people compliment you on your look or tell you that you're pretty then you probably are. If you think you're ugly then maybe you are. I mean don't put yourself down. If someone put you down then that means they have low self esteem, that's why they're judging you. Its not hard to have confidence.
1. ST0P picking out your imperfections! [nobodys perfect!]. your inprefections are what perfect about you [if you get it].
2. D0N'T take put downs seriously. if they say negative things about you.. well then say they must hate themselves that's why they reflect it out on you.
3. if you feel fat.. well look at other fatt people! then see if you're really that fat?
4. last but not least TRY T0 LEARN H0W T0 L0VE Y0URSELF!!. =D.
instead of criticizin yourself.. hold back the critics. ! and look at what good about yourself. if someone say you're hott. your reply is I know! its not being conceited.. its confidence. just when you think about puttin down yourself.. try hold back and say something nice. that's the attitude & emotions part.
now the physical & fashion part. to be able to feel pretty and have confidence in yourself you must look pretty to have confidence. So you can have a good sense of style. do your hair. .. dress up. it doesn't have to be formal and dressy. but be cute and dress nice. do your hair. be accessorize.
umm.. wear a little of make up, N0T too much though. natural is always better. Be Yourself!.
Lastly, your health is very important. don't let stress and other things get to you. When you're tired and stress.. RELAX! listen to music, sleep, read, exercise, or do something that will keep your mind away from what stressing you. when you're thinking about things that would make you depressed.. talk to someone. let it all out! it will make you feel better. Be medicated if that helps. eat healthy food too and balance your meal out. I think that helps.
hope I helped! =]. this is my aim sn: shietitzvy. if you need more advice or someone to talk to.
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thanks.
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