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in my grade im like in the middle in popularity. this year i started becoming really close friends with a girl in a popular group. her birthday is coming up and she invited me to her party with her and just her group. there are 6 of them and including her, i'm friends/aquaintances with 4 of them. she said she would understand because it would be awkward. i'm not sure if i want to go. should i go and risk it being awkward? and what are some ways to make it less awkward and uncomfortable for me?

help is appreciated!!

Whether she's "popular" or not, shouldn't mean anything. No one talks like that or classifies anyone in the REAL world. You might as well quit categorizing people & creating situations in where you would feel "awkward." If you're friends with her, go to her party & have fun. Who cares about stereotypes & whether or not you are going to be awkward with people YOU put above yourself? If you're friends or acquintances with these people, it shouldn't be too uncomfortable. Just be yourself & quit thinking anyone is better than you & that things are going to suck. Have a positive attitude & you'll have fun.

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(Rating: 5) thankss. you helpedd a lot!
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