well im 16 and im gonna put myself in your shoes. now what i would do (and i still do know)i would still be friends with both. i have friends all over. one is a nerd but shes so nice and funny and everyone else agrees, a couple that a super popular and my friends in my group:the popular nice friendly athletic group. but if i had to chose i would chose clique 2. the reason why is because group one got mad at you, talked about you, were mean, ect. you know this will happen again most likely and then you would have ditched your clique 2 group you wont have anybody else and group 2 would be mad at you for ditching them. especially your 2 best friends and thats a another reason to pick group 2. the 2 best friends you have made. are you jsut gonnaa ditch them for your old group just because they are suddenly being nice to you again?? How would you feel if one of them did that to you? it wouldnt feel good. You can still talk to them but i think its better if you stick with group 2. Like my mom told me about these girls that were my friends, then turned on me, and then started to be nice to me and they would do the same thing again: they are too wishy-washy meaning they go back and forth to much and cant make up their minds on wether to be friends with me or ditch me and i would cry because they would be mean and i was in the 4th grade. she just said stick with the group you are now. its better this way and all the friends i made that were so much better. thats how your group one is. any sec. they could turn on you all over again. just like she replaced you on myspace. also you can talk to them about it. explain how you feel toward eachother but you dont wanna ditch group 2 and please dont ditch group 2. i have had friends do that and it hurts. it makes you feel worth less and stuff like your not good enough and obviously gets you angry.but next time you guys have an argument you need to work it out. dont just blow it off. you gotta fix it.but once again i would pick group 2 because group one is way too "Wishy-washy" and could turn on you anytime. they are not that trust worthy and i would know from experience. well i hope i helped answer your question and send me another anytime. email me to tell me how it goes. scdgirl288@yahoo.com. good luck on the choice you make.

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