My name is Lyndsey and I'm 17 years old. I live in Lexington, South Carolina. I pride myself on being mature for my age with a good head on my shoulders, but I find I can be snippy when I hear something that just hits a nerve. I have a lot of strong opinions and I have no problem arguing them. I'm a very open-minded person and very tolerant of most things.
Immaturity is a big pet peeve of mine, as is self-centered, narrow-minded, and ignorant people. I can be cruel when it comes to these things, but sometimes certain people need to be told their faults. I know mine and I have no problem being confronted with them. If someone has a problem with me, online or in person, I'd rather they tell me and we can resolve the issue in a mature fashion. I won't tell you want to WANT to hear, just what you NEED to hear.
On a less serious note, I'm a laid back person and I enjoy shopping, the internet, and my favorite TV shows (Queer as Folk, The L Word, Friends, American Idol, Will & Grace, House). I don't have a large group of friends, but the ones I have are close and I love them to death. I generally enjoy life, minus the whole school deal. I'm a junior in high school and I can't wait to move on to college. I am an honors student and I hope to go to the University of South Carolina and then eventually into the medical field, possibly psychology.
If you have any questions or want advice, I'm here for ya, babes.
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ok well i really like my best friend but he doesnt know and i cant tell him because well i either want things to work out in a bf gf way or just stay best friends. but i cant handle awkwardness around him. like lets say he doesnt like me and then i have to see him every day and yea it would be weird. a long time ago, months ago, i liked him and told him. he couldnt like me because he was going through a gay phase. but hes not gay now. he just wasnt sure at the time. so i know there is a chance he likes me. there are clear signs that he does. but those were also there when he was gay. he led me on and then hurt me. i have no idea why. and to top it all off, my friends are pissed at him because he has a tendency to piss people off. so they are like ditching him and i am like his only friend now. so naturally he treats me soo well. like he is super nice and stuff. what do you guys think? should i drop the whole liking him and just try to be friends?? thanx in advance
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Well it sounds to me like you have no real reason to think he likes you. So, unless he gives you a sign that he does, I'd just assume he doesn't. If you like him, tell him and see what he says. If he says no, then just drop it. If he says yes, good for you.
Oh, and this is a little off topic, but you can't be gay and then just NOT be gay. So there's no such thing as "he used to be gay". You're probably very young and young people, mostly girls, like to say ignorant thinks like "I used to be bi, but I just like guys now". That's ridiculous. Experimentation is normal, but you can't CHANGE your sexual preference at the drop of a hat.
I'm not saying he was never into guys. He could've been experimenting with the idea and realized he preferred to be with girls. BUT that doesn't mean he was gay. That means he was trying to find out who he was.
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yea sorry thats what i meant to say though but he always says he used to be gay even though yea he was just unsure or experimenting at the time. anyhow thanx a lot =)
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