Hi, my name is Katie and I'm 15 years old. In those fifteen years I've literally been through more than most people go through in their entire life. I absolutely love helping people, and I've been told by many people that I'm good at it. I'll definitely love to give you advice, but I'm telling you right now I will say what I think, I'm not going to sugar coat everything or tell you what you want to hear just so you'll give me good ratings. So if you have any questions, about anything at all, just ask away, I'd be more than happy to help =]
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well it seems like you have been through a lot and you know what you're talking about. my best guy friend is an amazing person. i dont know if i really like the whole idea of love since many people have done tarrible things to my self esteem in the past. i mean ive been hurt a lot in the past by people i thought that cared about me. this is the one guy that shows me how much he cares about me every single day, he makes me feel special. what can i say hes the only person who can make me laugh and i feel like he understands me, how can i not fall in love with him. and yet, i know that maybe the feelings will never be the same. a lot of people know that he isnt exactly sure about his sexuality. but he told me a while back that he wasnt sure before but that now he is strait. so i dont wanna believe the stupid rumors. i liked him before but he told me that he just wanted to be friends after leading me on. i dont know if he was trying to prove to himself that he wasnt gay by hitting on me or something but it really hurt me. and well i told him i didnt like him anymore and ever since we've become really close. but recently the feelings came back. somehow i like him again, if not love him. i wish he would be clear about his actions. he makes it seem like he likes me too. he hangs out with only me, talks less with his other friends (girls) to spend time with me, makes up pet names for me, and tells me he loves me on a regular basis. other people think that he likes me. my friends always get jealous because they wanna spend time with him too but hes always around me. and hes known them longer. im not sure how this happened. im not sure how he became my best friend, my everything. telling him how i feel would make matters worse. schools almost out and after this year high skool will seperate us so theres no hope for a relationship. my friends tell me that i do have a chance with him but i find it hard to trust others and myself. when im with him i laugh so much and he brings all this happiness into my life. how can i deal with these feelings without hurting myslef or ruining this friendship? thank you so much
btw 14/f
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Wow, this is a tough one. I'm going to go ahead and tell you what I honestly think though.
I think that if this guy really likes you, then he'll make a move soon. He might just be leading you on again, and that's so wrong to hurt you again like that. I'd say that you need to guard your emotions and your heart and don't tell him that you have feelings for him again. Some things are better left unsaid.
Just be flirty with him, and if he really likes you, then he'll me smart and talk to you about it.
I wish you the best of luck. I know this situation is hard to deal with, I've been through it, and I actually told the guy I liked him the second time. It ended up horribly, so I hope things are better for you!
-Katie
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thanx and yea this is tough but you are probably right. i dont really want to put it all out there becuase then i will definately get hurt. i keep telling myself that he doesnt like me, that way i dont get too upset if i find out he doesnt. i guess its not as hard the second time around, i can deal with it. im just glad that we're friends and all. he can always make me laugh and just the fact that he always chooses to hang out with me over other girls makes me happy enough. i think he has already tried to make a move but again it might have just been my imagination. yea i agree with you some things really ARE better left unsaid. when i told him the first time it was a little awkward. anyways i really appreciate the help.
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