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Im Melanie. 16 Years old. Junior at My High School. Im good at giving advice. Very good! I will help you out, and tell you all I know, Im not always right, no one is. But ill tell you what I think, and the truth. I wont put it in nice terms ill say it as it is...........
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Okay so about a month & a half ago this guy asked me out & I said "Yes." but he was one of my best friends but i kinda liked him, so I was so confused, so i finally thought abuot it and made a decision about a week aftr i broke up with him because it felt so ockward to be making out with my best friend.
About three days after i broke up with him he started going out with my best friend, at first I was okay with it but after i saw them making out and holding hands I got sad & really jealous & I realized how much of a mistake that I made. Now they have been going out for almost a month & everyday at lunch they sit with us & they always cuddle up, get really close, hold hands, whisper in each others ears & I have to leave the table or else I get angry & yell or get sad & cry. There are other guys that want to go out with me but the only one I want is the one my best friend is going out with. I just REALLY need to know how to get over this, jealousy & what to do when I see them acting that way & what to when he flirts with me because yesterday he took my hand on the bus & held it. :/
I just really need help. I get so angry I want to et back with him so bad ! !
Personally I don't think they'll ever break up. :((

&&by the way I'm thriteen.
Thanks.
-Ashley.

Ashley, you will be fine, I understand that you are upset I would be too, But when you broke up with him, he was most likely upset and did what he had to do, Go out with your friend to make you jelous and want him back. But sumtimes when guys do that they end up likeing the other person(your friend) you will be upset for a little while but you will get over it. There are plenty of guys out there for you, maby he wasent the right one, and you were just ment to only stay friends. You look at your friend and him together and you miss the confort he gave you, and now you probly think you messed up big time, but you didnt. Date other guys, don't show him your jelous, (that the worst thing you can do!)--And everything should work out fine. I hope I helped you out
-------Melanie

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(Rating: 5) Thank you for the response ! It really helped me. Thank you very very much I really do appreciate it.
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