Hey!
I live in Canada and I'm teen. I've been through a lot of stuff with my friends over the last few years and I always try to give my insight into their problems (sometimes even when they don't really want it lol).
I've realized that over time I have accumulated a lot of questions about moving on, so if you have a question about that, lay it on me!!
I don't think that ratings matter, and that you should choose someone to trust your question with, that will answer it with care, but show you what the world really is and wont sugar coat it.
I hope you guys find my advice helps, hope to talk soon!! :D
Angie
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Lately all I want to do is cry. But I can't cry, it's a sign of weakness, right? But I'm not sad, I'm just.....I don't know. Have I held in my tears to long? I never cry when needed, because I don't have a shoulder to cry on(friend). If I cry at school, they will ask me what's wrong, but after I'm done crying they are just going to treat me like crap again, and if I cry at home, well I can't because I have to be a good rolemodle for my autistic brother, I can't just break down and cry! So i have no where to go to cry. What should I do? I don't know if I'll break down at home or school, all I know is that I'm going to have to cry sooner or later. (link)
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Hey!
I totally get what you mean. Sometimes we go through phazes where we just dont feel like we can go on any longer. And sometimes the best way to get it out is to cry. Yeah sometimes its going to feel like you're not supposed to cry, but you have to once in a while. Everyone does. And with any emotion, keeping it inside just isnt very healthy. So do some of the things other people said liek take a long relaxing shower or watch a sad movie and see where that takes you. Taking a deep breath is awesome too someone mentioned that I think just do whatever it takes to make you feel okay, and sometimes that means letting it all out and crying.
There are lots of places to cry, someone said the bathroom, thats a good last resort, but its also kinda depressing. Your room before you go to sleep is okay, go to a movie theatre, its dark and no one can see you just watch the movie and think about your feelings.
Sometimes all of the places and all of the things dont work, and you have to get your emotions out some other way, the way to do taht is to use your creativity, draw a picture write a poem, or keep a journal (I recomend the last one highly) let everything out. Read a book (or write one :P) do something that makes you happy. but hey, angie, thats not going to help me cry, you say, but sometimes the things that make you happy, lket you release that bit of emotion you need to get out and help you to feel just alittle bit better.
If all of that doesnt work, and you need another way to get it all out, write it out, write a letter to anybody (you can write it to me if you want), you dont have to send it, just write it to explain what your life is like and dont read it. Just write everything. It can be a page or a book. whatever it takes to make you get every single little thing out. And you'll probably find that in the end most of the feelings will be anger. And later in life a few months from now, if you still feel this way read over it and write some more. And then take the stuff you read and try and find ways to fix this. If its loneliness, join a club and make friends if its feelings sorry for yourself (about your brothers autisim and your parents not paying as much attention to you as him,) then try ad talk to someone about it.
If you're having problems at school try and figure out why and how to change them because sometimes a new outlook on things will help.
Remember this, no matter how hard life can get or how much you just want to give up and let it all loose you are important, and people care about you. Not just your parents or siblings, but people here too. People wouldnt answer your question if they didnt care, people wouldnt talk to you at school if they didnt care. There are lots of people who care about you.
And yeah it might happen, you might break down, but if you do, don't worry about people being mad at you, or getting uncomfortable about it, its life and no one can change you and who you are, when things happen out of control, sometimes its a sign somethings wrong, and maybe it will get you the help you need.
I really hope I helped, if you need anything, I'm here. Love ya,
Angie91
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wow, i think you gave me to much advice
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