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ok, so i'm 15/f and i'm gay, it's not too big a deal in my community, but i am still worried about coming out because there are some people who would kind of shun me and such. Anyways, there is this girl who is 17 and she's a lesbian, and i kind of like her, but that doesn't really matter because she has a girlfriend and i would never want to come between them. anyways, i kind of would like to just talk to her about it and stuff because i look up to her a lot, and the only person i can talk to is my best friend, who is cool with me being gay, but not too helpful since she's straight.

anyhow, this 17 year old girl thinks i'm straight probably and i want to start dropping hints, not just towards her, to everyone that i'm gay because i really dont want to just come out and say it.

what should i do? wear, act, say.......??? please help, I feel like if i just said i was gay I would lose some of my friends, and also because people would be like, so what we don't care, like it doesn't matter enough to just announce it, lol

ok if anyone-gay or straight, has any tips for dropping hints that would be awesome.

thanks in advance, if I don't like your advice i won't rate you bad i promise

ok im not gay so if my advice absolutely sucks im sorry but, i do understand how its probably difficult for you to just come out and say it so if you just want ppl to assume it kind of then heres some tips that i hope are useful
1. maybe hang out with more girls and drop hints with them and come out to them( girls are big gossipers and will get the word out haha)
2. act more feminine-carry a manbag or just something like that say 'omg' alot and 'like'
3. if you have a myspace takes pictures that have you acting like a girl or that have u holding the peace sign or something

...if any of these things affended anyone im really sorry...im just trying to tell him what most teenage kids dentify gay kids being like so SORRY!

hope i helped
-katie

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(Rating: 4) thank you for answering, but if i want people to think i'm gay, since i am, wouldn't it be better to be more tomboyish? not girly girl
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