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hey, i'm 14/f and in 9th grade. =] and this is my story.
i always seem to make really good friends then somehow distance from them, then I cant talk to them anymore and now everything is so awkward. this has happened 3 times but there's only 2 girls i want to be friends with again.
i used to be best friends with a girl (I'll call her "Ellie") in 2nd grade to 5th grade. Then, we kind of drifted..and now I really want to be friends with Ellie again, but I have NO idea how to go about it. We havent talked in like 4 years or the entire school year, but now we share a class and I know she notices me because we've made eye contact but neither of us says hi..which is kind of awkward
that's a tough one.
do you have a myspace or sn? thats a GREAT way to break into new friendships if not i'll try and give you my best advice..
next time your with just one of them start real small talk. just hey how was your weekend? and whatever they say be like, oh how cool! we need to hang out sometime!.. or "we need to hang out like old times!" and then follow it up with "yea me you and ellie should hang out next weekend!"
and just got shopping or to the movies, something that doesn't require too much one on one action but ya'll can do as a whole! you really need to regain your confidence with these girls, it sounds like you're good at makin friends, just deplete silly thoughts like "this is so awkward" and go for it, they'll say yes, and ya'll will probably have a lot of fun.
oh yea and if shes up for it ask for her phone number so you can call her with plans! and give her yours!! good luck!
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niceee. thankyouu :]
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