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I know what foreplay is and all, I'm not immature or anything...but I dont understand the concept of it. It's supposed to get a guy going, and have him last longer during sex...but how long do you have to wait after fooling around before having sex? I know guys have that peroid after orgasming that they have to wait until they can again...does that have anything to do with it? And will it help at all if you finger or do oral on the girl as well? (link)
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Foreplay actually has nothing to do with making a guy last longer. Foreplay is what happens BEFORE sex, designed for both people involved to enjoy themselves. This can range from kissing and cuddling to more intense things.
Things naturally progress from this to sex.
You may perhaps be thinking about guys having an orgasm before sex (by themselves, or with their partner!) so that they may be able to last longer during sex. This is very similar to having sex once and then waiting a couple of minutes to try again. Generally, the younger the guy is, the quicker his 'recovery time.'
Giving the girl pleasure before penetration can be a good idea, since females generally take longer to have orgasms than guys. And if a guy finishing quickly is a worry, the couple might benefit from really exciting the girl before sex starts.
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