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E-mail: mrskittles180@yahoo.com
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Member Since: March 27, 2007
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okay so i moved here earlier this year, -- i met some friends and through those friends i met my now, best friend, her name is Gina. Over the past couple of months me and Gina have been getting really close and all. Close enough that we have been sharing secrets and stuff. So we realized that we both cut. me more then her..but a few weeks ago she told me i was the only one who knew that she used to have an eating disorder for the past two years and she has had her withdrawels and relapses and stuff.. [you can deff. tell by looking at her that she does] Well now im more cautious of what she eats because i really care about her. The past few days ive been noticing she hasnt been eating or eats very little. today she brought cookies,cheesecurls,a sandwhich and a crunch bar. [her mom packed it.] and she gave away all the junk food leaving her with the sandwhich..she stared at it and threw it away. im really concerned for Gina. shes my best friend and i dont want to lose her and i want her to still feel like she can talk to me. what do i do? (link)
Make sure that she knows she can talk to you, it's very important that you keep the lines of communication open. She may not want to talk to you about it, but if you're her best friend then i think she will eventually.
Just make sure she knows your there for her and take note of the signs of increased problems.
This is a really good site for the signs of an eating disorder. I hope you look it over.

http://www.something-fishy.org/isf/signssymptoms.php


Hope I helped!!!

---Brandon---


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