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I come from a small town in New York called Fulton. not many people in our high school maybe 300 something. But I still love it here. I am most like any other 17 year old girl but I am not all that girly, I grew up with all guys except my best friend who I meet when I was 6. I love to dance, I also love the UFC! I am the biggest dork ever and I just dont care beucase I love it! There are very few people in this world that I love with all my heart. I still act like a little kid most of the time. I can't stand people who are fake and who casue drama. I get along with just about everyone and I tell it like it is.

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my age = 18
his age = 25

after 8 months of relationship, i broke it off 'cause
a - my parents weren't okay with him being my bf
b - he was too old/i kinda agreed too
c - he was causing too much pressure on me.

ok, so he's not educated - at all. he dropped out of highschool and started working straightaway. now he's a truck driver type of thing, i never really knew what he does for work.
he has this mentality that's very similar to the following: you go up to him telling him about your drinking problem and he answers "just stop ... for me". he's sweet and all that, but he uses this weapon to make me go back to him: he cries. and he keeps on going like 'i know i should be a man but *sniff sniff* i just love you ...' and i keep going back to him.
today i had enough and broke it off for good. i just can't have a normal life with him when he's too closeminded and stuff.
how do i tell him to move on without hurting his feelings?
i'm absolutely fine with being single. he was my first bf ever and i have no regrets. i just want to tell him to piss off - in a nice way =(.
i know i sound very bitchy but i just want him to let me go - for gooooood!

thanks in advance, sorry if i made this too long.

just tell him that you dont have the same feelings anymore and that you wish it could work out but its not and say that you need time for yourself and it may be a long time so he just needs to move on and just say sorry that your feelings changed and just say im to young for you and this wouldnt work out you need someone more then me.

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(Rating: 5) =) thanks so much!

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