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I been dating my boyfriend for sometime now. I am only 15 and he is 16. we made a mistake and have a son together now who is 3 months old. my boyfriend has lied so much to me. he disappeared for weeks at a time with out telling me where he was going or when he be back or with out even calling. he told he was going to sleep before but left his house and stayed at this girls house who liked him and his ex girlfriend lived there to. i try over and over again to forgive him but we keep fighting i forgave him all those times and never broke up with him. because i love him and i want him to around for his kid. he dropped out of school he gets fired from every job because he doesnt go to work because he is to tired his son is scared of him because he is never around i dont know what to do anymore please help

Wow that is one terrible situation. Do you have your parents support? If not, I suggest you get they can really help out with taking care of you son when you're at school and you will always have them there if you need to find the father.

You both are really younge it's not like those girls live by themselves. Try to talk to him, reasonably. But I think before you make any plans you should ask him if he even wants to be a part of your life and your childs life. If he says yes and honestly means it I suggest you lay down how you want to be with him and how going to school togehter can stregnthen your relationship and you can come home together to see the baby and will make taking care of him smoother. If he says no, which hopefully he won't then I suggest getting your parents into the situation if they're not.

I really hope everything works out some way or another.



oh and by the way: you're 15, the first girl is full of it when she says get a job because there is none a 15 year old can get. i think both of the other people who have responded to understand reality. he hasn't been able to keep a job and is out of school so he really is just a ball and chain on your childs life as of now, especially if your childs doesn't want him near. if there is a way to get your child to want him and him to want you and the child that would be great but if he keeps this up maybe breaking up will be best for the child.

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