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Q: Phewf. Okay. 15/f. (This is coming from a girl who has NEVER had sex...and won't for a long time)
Okay. I like guys. I like girls too, though. I would love to have a relationship with a guy. ANYTHING EXCEPT having ANYTHING to do with male genitalia....It just GROSSES me out COMPLETELY. Yet, I don't find myself a lesbian. I just CANNOT imagine being penetrated by a guy/oral sex, etc. I find it utterly disgusting (forgive me If this is offending). But....on the other hand, I would also LOVE to have a relationship with a girl..and the thing is - I DON'T MIND being sexual with a girl at all! It's like - BRING IT ON. (lol)...I find this very strange. But I get extremely aroused when I see a picture of a naked woman....or something. But, when I (if ever) get to see a naked man...I'm just grossed out. It's as if, with a guy....it's only everything ABOVE his pants, that I am "optimistic" about. AND HERE'S ANOTHER PROBLEM - I don't want sex with a guy, But I want a baby in the future! With a girl...it's flat out, straight - "BRING IT ON". Am I normal?
Help, please?
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Yes, you're normal. You're a completely normal lesbian. This may sound obvious, but the definition of a lesbian is a girl who is only sexually attracted to other girls. And that's exactly you. Don't worry about the label, being a lesbian can be a good thing. I know I was afraid of that label because of all of the stigma that goes with it. But some of us lesbians don't always fit the stereotype, and it doesn't make you any less of a lesbian. I hope that helps.
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I noticed you changed your question a little. If you're still confused, you can add me on myspace, the link to my site is www.myspace.com/paperbecky
or IM me on aol @ becstasyshock and I'd be happy to give you more advice/info
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Gender: Female Member Since: August 27, 2006 Answers: 17 Last Update: April 18, 2007 Visitors: 3506
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