Member Since: October 4, 2006 Answers: 185 Last Update: May 3, 2013 Visitors: 11375
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Get ready for this one, it might be a bit long.
Okay well my boyfriend and I had plans for today to get together so he could meet my cousin. Instead he gets drunk, calls me telling me that he can't come over but he wants me at his friends house to hang out at a party with him, then proceeds to tell me that I cannot bring my cousin who I never see. When I tell him no I can't just leave my cousin here he goes on saying oh well there are plenty of hott girls here who want to take their clothes off. Then I just tell him I was hanging up and he didn't even say just kidding or try to stop me he simply says k bye. That really got to me and I messaged him on myspace saying how he treated me was really wrong. He just replied back by saying soooo many b**ches so little time then he says where is the ky (as in the lubricant) G** Da** it.
So what I want to know is how do I let him know what he is doing to me is making me have suicidal thoughts. He really is a great boyfriend when he isn't drunk so I don't plan on breaking up with him. But how do I just let him know what he does hurts me. (link)
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Wow. I'm sorry but he's a jerk. He can't just treat you like that. Are you satisfied with that?. Does he really make you happy?. Because right now I know you're not. If you were really smart you would brake up with him. He's supposed 2 be you're boyfriend not someone who treats you like that. While you're at home crying he's probably at a party with some hore. Do you deserve that? Try to fix you're problem if you still love him. Tell him he hurts you. Or else say the same thing he tells you. Tell him you are going to a party and if some guys want to strip for you then o well...
Lets see how he reacts to that!
I really think you should just talk to him and tell him. Be alone with him. Just tell him that it hurts you. And if he knew how badly he wouldn't hurt you anymore.
I hope everything works out for the best. Remember God puts you on water but he doesn't drown you. Is that how it goes? Haha
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Rating: 3
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thanks, i talked to him last night he was as wasted as he has ever been in his life and he actually started crying when i told him that he hurt me
Rating changed by L2 moderator.
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