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hey well hopefully this isint so confusing...
mmm ok well i like this one guy and im thinking that i might give up hopes on him you know..well theres this other guy miguel who ive been known&he iz trying to go out with me but then my friend kindah has a crush on him...i mean were not like omg best friends or anything shes just a girl in my 5th period class whom i talk to whenever i see her but we dont hang out or anything...well anyways i told her about the guy liking me so she wouldnt get her hopes up for nothing but the thing is that she says its ok and that i should go for it but i still feel kind of messed up if i do decide to go with him `yadameaniiez?! she says it kool if i go for it&dat she will get over it but something compared to that happened with me and one of my closest friends&my ex who i really really liked...would it be the same thing?? because if shes going to feel as fucked up as i felt i dont want to put her through that yu know!!
*ugh* plz tell me what should i do??

hey if i were you this is what i would do, i would maybe ask miguel if he's sure that he likes you and not this other girl. If he says that he likes you and this isn't just like a fling then i would go for it... think about it if you didn't go out with him i dont think that would change how he feels about this other girl so either way she doesnt get to be with miguel unless he is the type of person who likes to jump around alot and date alot of different girls and in this case i would stay away..hope i helped!

-katie

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(Rating: 5) thx!
well yeah nah hes not like that because he had his heart broken like 2 yrs back and since then he hasent really trusted a girl that much as in to be in a relationship and the fact that hes trying to take a chance on me kind of means something right??=/
well yeah thx!!=p
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