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Theres this boy, Jacob. He's one of my best friends, and I'm in love with him. I really am, don't tell me I'm too young or anything. But I don't know if he likes me that way or not. he did earlier this year, but I don't know anymore. And my friend likes him, too. I've cried over him so many times, because i thought that he liked her. I was really upset, but I dont know, as long as he was happy then i wasn't too sad. I was afraid that she'd hurt him or something. But anyway, its been so much pain and hurt. should I just try and see if I can stop loving him? Is love worth all the tears and pain?

i have been in a somewhat similar situation and you have to find out 3 things: would your best friend be upset with you if you went out with jacob ,if jacob likes your best friend or you , and you have to figure out who means more to you, your best friend or jacob. If Jacob likes your best friend then you have to stop loving him now... your just going to end up really hurt and disapointed, you would need to erase him out of your life...its the only way. However if he likes you then it just depends on who you choose, bestfriend or boyfriend. Its up to you there but if i were you maybe i would have a neutral friend find out who he likes or if you have a s/n make up a fake one and i-m him... this usually works ..hope i helped good luck!

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