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i met this guy about 6 months ago.
i told myself that i would not fall for him but a little over two months ago we had sex. He took my virginity and i ended up falling in love with him. i told him how i feel and he was fine with it i told him i was sorry and he said don't be. Well two weeks ago we got into this argument and he told me to get over him and to stop talking to him.
i am miserable, depressed and i feel like i have no reason to smile or be happy anymore. Ive lost alot of respect for myself. none of my friends understand me or they say they don't but when i ask them what should do they say talk to him. yes maybe i do need to talk and tell him how i feel right now but he will not listen to me.
i miss this guy.
ive cried myself to sleep the last three nights.
please give me advice as to what will make me feel better.
thank you
hey, alright well you gave your virginity to this guy, so of course your going to have strong feelings for this guy and he isnt going to be easy to let go. thats why everyone recommends being against premartial sex. your suppose to seriously love your partner and have him equally love you. i hope that you learned your lesson about having sex with guys that you arent sure if they love you 100% and sincerely. anyways, as much as it hurts you have to let him go. if he had the ordasicity to have sex with you and pretend like you were the best thing that happened to him and then tell you to stop talking to him, than hes not worth it and you deserve better. i dont even know you and im saying that. i know right now he seems like the next best thing since sliced bread, but its only because you had sex with him. trust me, ive been there done that. in reality, hes scum. try to find other guys and date around. see what you like and find some good qualities. put yourself out there. have a friend introduce you to some guys. look cute and smell nice. fantasy by britney spears smells amazing.
(Rating: 4) i don't love him only because i had sex with him i loved him before we had sex but thanks. im not blaming anyone for my mistake i know i probly hsouldnt of had sex with him but everything happens for a reason right? i dont know the reason, yet. And not everyone recommends being agaisnt premartial sex because if everyone was agaisnt it then we would have nothing but virgins and this world is far from that..
thank you