Member Since: September 27, 2006
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14/f
theres a guy who i've been inlove with for about 2 years since we've went out then broken up. he totally ignored me for half a year and i was depressed pretty much. then we became friends with benifits. it was suppost to be secret but i told and some word got out, he basically hated me for 2 months. then he would tell me he wanted to be friends with benifits. this went on and off threw out april threw october in 2006. we had sex the first time over summer then he said he never should have because he loved someone else. he never had feelings for me just lust, but i had feelings for him (stupid i know).. i just cant say no to him. then when had amazing sex in october and he said we had to stop bc he was inlove with someone else. it hurt. for around 5 monthes i tried to forget about him. we never talked. then a week ago we started talking again and it seemed like we were normal friends. now we plan on having sex another time soon because we can't stop lusting over each other. i know he likes someone else and this little secrect hookup has to end sometime like before, i just don't know what i should do.. have sex with him or just keep putting it off and avioding him. i really don't know if i love him but i just feel a strong feeling towards him and its so intense. and when we'd hook up he seemed not even to care but then when we would finally talk about what we did he would admit a bunch of stuff. he can't show feelings at all. im so sorry this is confusing, but i just need comfort. i don't want to tell anyone else about this whole issue because its my responsiblity to make sure no one finds out. i mean if everone knows ive done it 3 times before i was even 14 they'd never stop talking about me. just please help (link)
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I may not be able to help you, but i have the exact same problem.
Literally the exact same problem and i dont know what to do either.
My advice is just get through each day by day ,and what happens,happens.
If you still like him, you can like him ,you cant stop feelings for someone.
You have to let it come naturally.
When people hear that ive had this problem ,they just start assuming things without even knowing the story.
Im the same age , and i always feel so awkward but things will all change within a year or two.Even though it feels like it will never end lol
Sorry I couldnt help, i was just surprised someone had the exact same problem as me haha
yeah same here
its not as easy as everyone thinks
they say "get over him"
but its really really hard
and every person i talk to says to get over him too, everythings so hard
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hah, its okay. i basically just need someone to talk to because i cant tellanyone else. thank you
EDIT- like, i can't stop liking him no matter what and i can't say no to him. eveyr other advice i got was like, "stop" and its not that easy because i would honestly do anything for him wheter he loves me ornot
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