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Ok so i got a boufriend we have been going out for like 2 weeks and ii have absoultly no feelings for him ='[ when he touches me i feel werid and everythiing i want to end it but i dnt know how if i do alot of people will hate me so pelase help i dont nkow what to do please anyone help me the more advice the better =[

If you simply don't have any feelings for him & you're not comfortable around him, you're under no obligation to go out with him. Who cares what other people think? People should not hate you for making your own decisions in life - especially for something like this. As cliche & random as it sounds, I thought I'd throw this quote in here: "It's better to be hated for who you are than loved for what you aren't." Moving along - be honest with him now so he doesn't feel like he's been led on. Tell him exactly what you told us & I'm sure he'll understand. There's not much else you can do besides be honest at this point. Don't bother worrying about what everyone else thinks is right. You know whats best for you, not them. :)

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