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13/f i used to be spoiled but now they do not care about me, mainly just my brother. i got along so good with my mom. now my mom is against everything i do. so im going gothic. but now im alot happier? exept with my family especially my mom! im just so happy in my room and around friends or at school. but then i even see my family i get VERY deppressed i just get very mad and cry and confused and have to just leave.but i hate her she says i do everything wrong! ~A~how do i change this i HATE it? i can not talk to her or get a theripist. ive been alot better now with headphones in all evanescence. she doesnt like my jewelery, clothes, friends, music, how i act and what i do. and its a fact. THE HOLE FRIENDS THING STARTED WITH MY HUGGING MY BEST FRIEND CUZ I WAS CRYIN SO HARD I HAD A SUICIDE THOUGHT. should i tell her i had a thought, someone i knew also just died from suicide i would probly get sent somewhere like rehab for deppressed people. she also wont let me go anywhere or be with guys. or my best friends. my main best friend is a guy. then im in a group with 5 girls and 2 other guys. so i sneek. shes taking away all i have. im deppressed enough as it is. my friends say shes the one making me deppressed. i sneek with guys and my friends. i have nothing without my friends. i say im at the mall with other people i could care less if she catches me but i want to be with my friends the only people in my life who i will talk to and have fun with. she HATES my friends becaus their gothic and my best friends because he a guy but hes preppy were in total oppasite groups we dont care. but im so mad and crying my head off! if i ask her she gets pissed so i cant ask ~B~how do i make it so i can go with my friends and guys. also tell me honestly anything you think i should do and any questions i forgot. (link)
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Your 13 hunny, you want to grow up to fast! It's not good for you!
I can understand where you are coming from when you feel happy when your with your friends and your not when your with your family because I use to feel the same way!
I got into a bit of trouble about when I was your age, I hated everything, hated my life, hated everything, especially my family.. but when I was out of control and really needed someone to talk to my family were there for me! No one else.. not my friends who I thought were my friends but just my family!
You are only 13, if you want to live your own life and think you know everything about the world well i'm sorry sweety but no one is really old enough to take on the whole world.
As for your friends, if you didn't want to change and you want to have a good relationship with your mum, invite them around and make a good impression. Your mum is only looking out for you! She doesn't hate you and the things you do, she's just trying to teach you whats right from wrong.
Just think through what you really want to do in life, think about how you want your relationships with your friends and family to be then act on your decisions but DO IT THE RIGHT WAY!
Yelling and screaming and crying isn't going to solve anything... it will only create heart ache!
Your family loves you no matter what you think! You think the whole world is against you but really its not. You are against the world! Do you really want to be the person who has nothing? Who is out on the street? You may get the freedom you want but what else will you have?
Just think about this and the way you are treating you mum.
If you were to take your own life how do you think your family felt. Your parents would be heart broken to think their little girl hated life so much and they couldn't do anything to stop you because you never opened up to them. Your friends will cry i'm sure but will they be the ones to visit your grave? Will they be the ones to will cry every night for years after and will always remember you?
Probably not!
Sorry Hun but you have to look at reality now, this is your life you are playing at. It's not such a bright idea!
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thanks but my friends are everything and they would always be there for me their deppressed and gothic to
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